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This is about the fascinating balance in life on giving and receiving back, or tacking and losing more of what you have. This balance can also be explained by the laws (attraction and vibration)and I believe it's an interesting lesson on unconditioned love. Offering is a practice of becoming better day by day, of cultivating more positive thoughts, by giving away with simple love your energy in any form you may have it: you can give passion, time, intelligence, deep involvement in your business and work; you can offer affection, wise words or advises, confidence for those around you; you can offer from your personal resources (money, cloths) for those who don't have that much. Any act of giving is unconditionally followed by it's opponent - you receive back more. I truly believe that and it's something that life has already demonstrated for most of us.
Real giving is natural, serene and unconditioned. If you only offer your money for cherish because you want God to give you more, than think again, because you are not giving just for the purpose to give and feel the happiness of doing that.Generosity is a great habit for those who want to fell more joy in their lives. On the other hand, generosity is never about you, is about the object/subject of your generosity.You need to make sure that, when you give, you are not actually tacking more. For instance, you can chose to give money for a family, but you might take away the father's personal power to overcome difficult situations, his self-confidence, or the mother's love from their children. After that, you might experience some lacks in your life as well because of your action.
You might feel that you give away all your energy and time at work...Well, giving is a happy habit, and if you expect to get some return investment on that, there is this basic condition to be fulfilled - feel generous with your time, with your own resources, fell happy about your involvement, fell like you are the one choosing to be there (it's obviously so), and expect for the best results as a consequence. It's ok if you don't have money to invest, I believe that you can fulfil all your needs if you give what you have - and I believe we have plenty of energy to work with, and so many ways to increase it.
What about taking? We all sometimes take things we feel like we need. We need to be loved (because we hate ourselves) and we force people to show some kind of affection from us - usually we get more disappointed. We get into fights or tensioned relations, and steel other's energy and just throw it away. Even just taking stationary that is not ours for the office is a manifestation of unbalanced energy that you are taking and will eventually lose (your car gets stolen, or you end up with less money etc.)
We have so much to give and so much to receive in our lives. Take it as a funny game of "who gives more", and remember that the only competition going on is just with you, as there is plenty for everybody out there.
Real giving is natural, serene and unconditioned. If you only offer your money for cherish because you want God to give you more, than think again, because you are not giving just for the purpose to give and feel the happiness of doing that.Generosity is a great habit for those who want to fell more joy in their lives. On the other hand, generosity is never about you, is about the object/subject of your generosity.You need to make sure that, when you give, you are not actually tacking more. For instance, you can chose to give money for a family, but you might take away the father's personal power to overcome difficult situations, his self-confidence, or the mother's love from their children. After that, you might experience some lacks in your life as well because of your action.
You might feel that you give away all your energy and time at work...Well, giving is a happy habit, and if you expect to get some return investment on that, there is this basic condition to be fulfilled - feel generous with your time, with your own resources, fell happy about your involvement, fell like you are the one choosing to be there (it's obviously so), and expect for the best results as a consequence. It's ok if you don't have money to invest, I believe that you can fulfil all your needs if you give what you have - and I believe we have plenty of energy to work with, and so many ways to increase it.
What about taking? We all sometimes take things we feel like we need. We need to be loved (because we hate ourselves) and we force people to show some kind of affection from us - usually we get more disappointed. We get into fights or tensioned relations, and steel other's energy and just throw it away. Even just taking stationary that is not ours for the office is a manifestation of unbalanced energy that you are taking and will eventually lose (your car gets stolen, or you end up with less money etc.)
We have so much to give and so much to receive in our lives. Take it as a funny game of "who gives more", and remember that the only competition going on is just with you, as there is plenty for everybody out there.
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I hope that you have all got the idea that everything needs to be simple, if you want it to work. I have red thousand of pages of self development books, which I am so grateful for, but when it comes to extracting the lessons and insert them into your thoughts and actions, my personal belief is that we don't need to frustrate our self to read 10 pages articles, about what something you already know means, you just need some incentive, some small steps to remind you daily of the path you have chosen to take. Something easy and pleasurable, something fun to do, after a 15/20 minutes read.
Designing your own list of positive affirmations is a great thing to do. I've learned about what that means, and about the role and impact of saying to yourself all good beliefs you want to have about your life in the book of Louise L. Hay - "The power is within you" - you can check more info out here. . Our mind is like a lady's closet. We can chose to shuffle there new cloths, in a small tiny space completely unsuitable, and keep the old ones that will not do us any good (these are the negative beliefs, the things we sometimes kept from our childhood, from when we were really young and completely vulnerable to people we grew up with, or thinks we have started believing in difficult times of our lives, like "I will never find a partner", "I'm not good enough for a better job" etc.)Or we can clean our closet of all the used cloths, they do not fit us any more and make proper room for nicer ones, that make us feel happier when we wear them. It's the same with our beliefs on life and ourselves.
Think about it. Make a list of things you know you belief, because they pop up in your head like this, think it through, you want them to stop. Burn the list then and make a big fire (please do this outside:).I did that, and it was so life changing that I can't even explain... Now, replace them with all good things you would like you unconscious mind to act upon, and start repeating them every day, in all kind of ways. Start having fun! Record your voice saying how grateful you are for you health, your prosperity and listen to it while relaxed. Have fun and say it to yourself in the mirror. Make a desktop or a screen saver with nice pictures, nice colours and nicer beliefs. You are the one asking for your life to be fantastic, and you are the one who is always at the other side answering. I have affirmation for happiness, for health, for money, for professional activities, for love, for my vision on life. Go make your own!Eventually, your thoughts will create your reality.
Designing your own list of positive affirmations is a great thing to do. I've learned about what that means, and about the role and impact of saying to yourself all good beliefs you want to have about your life in the book of Louise L. Hay - "The power is within you" - you can check more info out here. . Our mind is like a lady's closet. We can chose to shuffle there new cloths, in a small tiny space completely unsuitable, and keep the old ones that will not do us any good (these are the negative beliefs, the things we sometimes kept from our childhood, from when we were really young and completely vulnerable to people we grew up with, or thinks we have started believing in difficult times of our lives, like "I will never find a partner", "I'm not good enough for a better job" etc.)Or we can clean our closet of all the used cloths, they do not fit us any more and make proper room for nicer ones, that make us feel happier when we wear them. It's the same with our beliefs on life and ourselves.
Think about it. Make a list of things you know you belief, because they pop up in your head like this, think it through, you want them to stop. Burn the list then and make a big fire (please do this outside:).I did that, and it was so life changing that I can't even explain... Now, replace them with all good things you would like you unconscious mind to act upon, and start repeating them every day, in all kind of ways. Start having fun! Record your voice saying how grateful you are for you health, your prosperity and listen to it while relaxed. Have fun and say it to yourself in the mirror. Make a desktop or a screen saver with nice pictures, nice colours and nicer beliefs. You are the one asking for your life to be fantastic, and you are the one who is always at the other side answering. I have affirmation for happiness, for health, for money, for professional activities, for love, for my vision on life. Go make your own!Eventually, your thoughts will create your reality.
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...can actually be a great help in building this habit of positive thinking. Thoughts, words, spoken ones, affirmations and statements, beliefs that we say to our mind, or in our conversations everyday, these are all tools that our mind works with in the process of manifesting thoughts into reality. You can imagine that is totally redundant to have 5 minutes of positive thoughts, but to complain or niggle the entire day with whoever you meet with.There is obviously this need to be constant and totally into good feelings and thoughts if you really want something good to happen in your life.
This is something that I red in the Anthony Robbins's book, called "Discover the force within you". The basic idea is that we need to think more thorough about words we tend to use every day in describing our feelings, state of minds etc. and really think about their impact on our minds. I had periods in my life when I was feeling really tired of working so much, and I was always saying that to whoever would have asked.No I believe that this was actually making me feel more tired than I was. So, I decided to replace the word (and therefore the feeling that comes with it) in "I feel like I can use a recharge" - these makes me feel happier and relaxed.Whatever words you chose, it is very important to make it funny so you can laugh with joy.
One challenge in this process is to feel confident and not care or be hurt if people, friends or relatives will help you.You need to be constant and use these words in talking with all of them.Generally, people who complain a lot or maybe have other interests than you will not understand what you are doing. And is perfectly fine, it's ok!I used to have difficulties in answering the same dull question "How are you today".My answer was inevitably "I'm very good, I am great, I fell wonderful" and then my friends would give me a weird look and make fun of me cause I always give them this answer, instead of plain old fool of sheet meanings - I'm ok...Guess what happened? I now feel inevitably great, no matter the question and who put it.
Here are some examples of word changing that I have implemented so far. Remember that you need to have your own words, as the most important thing is what you perceive and feel of any word, feeling etc. And make it fun!
disappointed - in standby, delayed
busy - feeling funny making money
weird - funny
stressed - blessed
sad - awoken to reality, intoxicated
fine - fantastic
confident - unstoppable
lucky - invincible
relaxed - serene
And the list may go on.Be sure to have your own words to make you feel special and happy!
This is something that I red in the Anthony Robbins's book, called "Discover the force within you". The basic idea is that we need to think more thorough about words we tend to use every day in describing our feelings, state of minds etc. and really think about their impact on our minds. I had periods in my life when I was feeling really tired of working so much, and I was always saying that to whoever would have asked.No I believe that this was actually making me feel more tired than I was. So, I decided to replace the word (and therefore the feeling that comes with it) in "I feel like I can use a recharge" - these makes me feel happier and relaxed.Whatever words you chose, it is very important to make it funny so you can laugh with joy.
One challenge in this process is to feel confident and not care or be hurt if people, friends or relatives will help you.You need to be constant and use these words in talking with all of them.Generally, people who complain a lot or maybe have other interests than you will not understand what you are doing. And is perfectly fine, it's ok!I used to have difficulties in answering the same dull question "How are you today".My answer was inevitably "I'm very good, I am great, I fell wonderful" and then my friends would give me a weird look and make fun of me cause I always give them this answer, instead of plain old fool of sheet meanings - I'm ok...Guess what happened? I now feel inevitably great, no matter the question and who put it.
Here are some examples of word changing that I have implemented so far. Remember that you need to have your own words, as the most important thing is what you perceive and feel of any word, feeling etc. And make it fun!
disappointed - in standby, delayed
busy - feeling funny making money
weird - funny
stressed - blessed
sad - awoken to reality, intoxicated
fine - fantastic
confident - unstoppable
lucky - invincible
relaxed - serene
And the list may go on.Be sure to have your own words to make you feel special and happy!
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Now there is a word that I believe the entire humanity has a problem with..DISCIPLINE - I wrote it in bold so you can feel better what I mean.Why should we feel obliged, forced, in need to live our life in discipline - in order to get the fabulous body, get the fabulous job, get the fantastic lover etc.Having a discipline in the process of pursuing your wishes means, in my opinion, like having an insurance that the process will eventually finish and you will get what you wanted (and expected for!).
For most of the people discipline is not something easy to manifest every day, especially in those aspects of our life that we are dying to change, where we have most of our wishes and fantasies, but there are these thoughts, these deep inner thoughts, that, whatever you want to do, is not that easy.
In order to really appreciate discipline, to see the benefits that it can bring, please see discipline as a synonym with "sweet waiting". You need to trust that, day by day, manifesting more positive thoughts, practising all those things you know will lead to a more happier you (you know it as there is this inside voice that will always confirm that for you) you will bring yourself to jackpot success!The beauty of the human mind is that, at one point, every thing you do, with your mind, body or spirit, becomes a custom, a habit that you will find so easy to do after only 2,3 weeks. Including discipline!
Why do we need it? Imagine one goal you've set for yourself at one point. Like building a perfect body, or buying a motorcycle, or whatever it is. At first, usually we get the thrill of the desire - we imagine how it would be and that makes us happy, we visualise some images, most of them are positive.We even try to put down a basic, start up plan to do that (Ok, I will buy a subscription to the gym, and will go there 3 time a week after work...). Great!The next few weeks are the real challenge.
The mind get this idea that whatever we want to do and it's new, than it shouldn't be there, and we have this war in our minds between what it is and what comes new, and is unknown. Discipline is so sweet as it allows us to integrate the positive things we want in our lives. Discipline is about appreciating your self and loving your self, and actually believing in your hopes. If you just secretly wish for something, but have no will in doing something for that, anything, than...ask for self? What are you doing really? Does it worth it? Because you deserve it all, there is no doubt about that.
For most of the people discipline is not something easy to manifest every day, especially in those aspects of our life that we are dying to change, where we have most of our wishes and fantasies, but there are these thoughts, these deep inner thoughts, that, whatever you want to do, is not that easy.
In order to really appreciate discipline, to see the benefits that it can bring, please see discipline as a synonym with "sweet waiting". You need to trust that, day by day, manifesting more positive thoughts, practising all those things you know will lead to a more happier you (you know it as there is this inside voice that will always confirm that for you) you will bring yourself to jackpot success!The beauty of the human mind is that, at one point, every thing you do, with your mind, body or spirit, becomes a custom, a habit that you will find so easy to do after only 2,3 weeks. Including discipline!
Why do we need it? Imagine one goal you've set for yourself at one point. Like building a perfect body, or buying a motorcycle, or whatever it is. At first, usually we get the thrill of the desire - we imagine how it would be and that makes us happy, we visualise some images, most of them are positive.We even try to put down a basic, start up plan to do that (Ok, I will buy a subscription to the gym, and will go there 3 time a week after work...). Great!The next few weeks are the real challenge.
The mind get this idea that whatever we want to do and it's new, than it shouldn't be there, and we have this war in our minds between what it is and what comes new, and is unknown. Discipline is so sweet as it allows us to integrate the positive things we want in our lives. Discipline is about appreciating your self and loving your self, and actually believing in your hopes. If you just secretly wish for something, but have no will in doing something for that, anything, than...ask for self? What are you doing really? Does it worth it? Because you deserve it all, there is no doubt about that.
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